Sometimes, signs of lack of interest are blatant and sometimes, they are vague. If you’re meeting someone for the first time and getting mixed signal, the woman may simply be nervous. In that case, you need more time to gauge her interest.
If you’ve know her a good while and are confused as to her interest in you, analyse how she acts and reacts around you.
She doesn’t return your calls.
She’s never available. Every time you suggest spending some time together, regardless of how casual you make it sound, she has other plans.
She keeps conversations with you to a minimum. If trying to talk to her is starting to resemble pepele pew chasing after Penelope pussycat, it is time to move on. A woman who is interested will look forward to talking to you and try to initiate conversation, not running away at top speed when she sees you coming. And if, when you finally do manage to corner her into conversation, she makes up a reason to leave.
Her eyes wander during conversation. When a woman avoids making eye contact with you, it is a bad sign in the romance department. She’s not interested in what you’re saying and is probably looking for a way out.
She avoids physical contact. If she greets everyone with a big bear hug and you end up with a quick, one- armed hug or less, it’s a safe bet she’s not only not interested, but perhaps is put off by you.
She seems closed off in general. When you talk to her, does she ask questions? Does she offer information about herself or share stories or memories? An interested woman will joke, tell stories, share memories and most likely touch your arm at some point. If she keeps her distance and doesn’t seem to enjoy being near you, there’s no doubt about it: you need to let this one go.
She says she’ll be right back and doesn’t come back. Congratulations, you’ve just been ditched. Maybe If she apologises for it later, don’t sweat it; but if it’s not the first time she’s done it and you’re seeing other signs, just save yourself the trouble and find someone who returns your interest.
She openly shows interest for someone else, especially around you. Ouch.
She draws attention to her flaws or plays up her friends. If she does one or both of these, she’s trying to direct your attention elsewhere. A woman would never brag about her flaws or try to make her friend sound like a better catch to a guy she’s interested in.
She tells you. You can’t get much more obvious than saying it flat-out: “I’m not interested in you”. If she’s big enough to tell you to your face, without playing games or beating around the bush, then be man enough to respect the fact that she doesn’t want a relationship with you; and find a woman who does.