The issue I want to write about is one that has been on my mind since I became a teenager. Africans generally see sex as something sinful, something responsible children should not talk about yet all of us are products of sex, except your mama na virgin Mary oh.
We all know the primal need of most men is the need to ejaculate, the little kids we think are innocent are trying skills not even listed in kama sutra yet we don’t like to talk about sex oh! Most of us have lots of porn magazines and CDs stashed away in our secret hideout yet we like to pretend.
Seriously sometimes I wonder and imagine how those pastors make out *covers face* I try to imagine the look on their faces when they are in the throes of orgasm *runs away*
Back to the matter, what is really bugging me is marrying as a virgin and relationship and sex. I’d rather this post is interactive so I will not bore you with long stories. One thing I know is the fact that my cherry has been popped doesn’t mean I am a whore and the fact that I am still a virgin doesn’t mean I am holy.
Why do guys like to harp on the “if you love me why not have sex with me line?” after all the ladies of the red light district have sex with different men without emotions attached so why use sex as a wager sort of?
Enough of me, any big deal marrying a virgin? Is sex essential to the growth of a relationship? Make we relate oh………………………………………..