Sunday, 14 September 2014

WHEN RELATIONSHIPS DON'T WORK

Relationships are hard and require sacrifice but how much sacrifice is reasonable? The more you put into something, the more you should be getting out of it, unfortunately, it doesn't always work this way.
There are some relationships that the more you put into it, the more you are likely to lose. I've been there.

- are you always changing your behaviour to placate your partner?
- does your partner make it feel like they are doing you a favor by dating you?
- do you feel the need to compensate for or protect your partner's feelings?
One sided relationships lose their sparkle too soon and sometimes hard to walk away from. Be strong and committed to yourself before you commit to anyone else.

21 comments:

  1. "Be strong and be committed to yourself before you commit to anyone", wise words mami.

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  2. Crap!!!!...mami...okay seriously there is something wrong with your feedburner (burn a new feed mami)...I didn't get any update bout this post...**sad face**....erhmmmm...mami....the post tho'....everything okay?.....mami lemme just say this...put in 50 and make sure you get 50....if you don't get 50....then.....**sigh**

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    1. Oh something must be wrong then.
      Am fine my dear

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  3. once i worked hard to earn love.....mehn it was difficult and i never got enough..

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  4. I don't get it, work hard to earn love?**confusedface** damn it cos I'll rather work hard to get the dough n watch love crawling n asking for a damn chance.






    ™Jeezuz_Ricki™

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  5. Hi Amaka! Was tld abt ur blog by a frnd in schl xo i decidd 2stp by n chk out 4myslf. Tlkn abt d post, der re relatnshp u value so much u put in ur all but don't get reslt, as a high tension wire(das wa i am cald), hw do i drop it wtout doin smtn stupid? Thnx.

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    1. Hey sugar, thanks for visiting. Send me a mail at amakahundeyin@gmail.com asap. Mwah!

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  6. Nice one Bubba, I for one dont believe in Hoping for a Relationship to get better. if shi dont make you happy, then move on. Its that simple.

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  7. A relationship should be 50/50.... if you're trying too hard to get your spouse's attention then maybe it was never meant to be in the first place. No time to waste time.

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  8. A relationship should be 50/50.... if you're trying too hard to get your spouse's attention then maybe it was never meant to be in the first place. No time to waste time.

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  9. Wen u r truly in love, what u put into ur relationship can neva b measured. U'l give ur all widout even realizing it.
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  10. You dont know how much this spoke to me, its really hard to let go such relationships, you keep giving yourself false hope it will get better but it never does. Anyways God dey
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