Wednesday, 29 October 2014
WIFE MATERIAL OR NOT
This topic has been on my mind for a very long time but I've not had the time to be still and articulate my thoughts ....anyway I've finally been able to gather my thoughts.
I don't know about other parts of the world but in Nigeria where I'm from, a lot of emphasis is placed on marriage and especially on the bride; lots of things are expected of her and sometimes I feel for us (I'm not married yet but soon sha!). So great are the demands that an app was created to know your worth as a wife material oh!
So typically, a Nigerian guy will tell you he can only wife her if
#she can pound yam... Oh really? Even if pounded yam is not her traditional food? Even if she is tired all you care for is your pounded yam abi?
#she can cook....hello!!! Some ladies do not like cooking and I don't see why people make an issue out of it. I mean, I like to cook doesn't mean every girl's default hobby should be cooking.
#she is a freak in bed.... Yes yes!!! Amaka is all for this but that doesn't mean she can't learn if she is a greenhorn *winks*
#she is educated... Really? She must be educated before you wife her? Well, everyone has choices but if a lady is homely, I see no reason why she shouldn't be wifed.
There are many silly factors guys list, some even make me wonder if they have lost their damn marbles!!
While we all have that freedom to choose, we should be careful not to set high standards and unreasonable demands that will keep depriving us of our better half.
So guys, where you at? What are the qualities of a wife material? Who is a wife material?
P.S I've been trying to reach Ernie unsuccessfully since yesterday, honey please try to get in touch ASAP. X