Hello everybody, hope you're doing fine? I want to make you happy.. Hope you're feeling..... Feeling feeling.. . . Hope you're feeling fine?
Hehehe don't mind me ooh! Those of us that went to Nursery and primary school in Nigeria will remember this rhyme abi? If you didn't sing it then you went to jelosimi. End of story.
Back to the business for the day; this topic has been on my mind for a long time but I've not been able to get myself together to type something but this morning I've decided to share my thoughts with y'all.
By nature, I'm very outgoing, I mean you I start talking to people I just met, you'll think I've known them for ages, I'm hot tempered too, I also have zero tolerance for rubbish but on the flipside I could be very gentle and quiet if I want to be that those who don't know me always mistake me to be a quiet person *yimu*
I like making friends or should I say acquaintances because for me to call you my friend, hmmmm, he hard oh.
So when I was in school, I had my friends I was loyal to and since we we were in different departments, we rarely had time to hang out and catch up on times and happenings so I was a one man squad in my department. There was this particular girl that would always walk up to me during lab hours and start little talks and I can talk to you for a year without talking about myself because I don't talk freely if I'm not free with you and since I liked to sit at the back, she'll leave her front seat and come to the back to meet me. On and on it went and this girl was cantankerous so nobody liked her, I was indifferent sha but this girl was hell bent on being my friend oh! After a while she said she wanted to visit me and all my effort to discourage her proved abortive. In fact she moved in with me for two months and funny enough we never fought!
All along I was scheming on how to discharge her because she loved me and I didn't have the smallest atom of likeness for her oh. When I saw the girl refused to understand my body language (I won't call her for months, yet she won't get angry) I decided to let her be since I knew after graduation, I won't be seeing her like that. After graduation, I cut her but ,she pings me and all but she is getting the message now I believe.
Just when I was happy I was free, I met another girl bent on being my "bestie" in my lodge. I just don't like this girl one bit, funny enough when she starts her bullshit I ignore her, this girl has fought with everyone here except me.
One time I just woke up and decided not to talk to her and she started sending me messages on WhatsApp that she loves me but I hate her, blah blah blah and I just decided to let her be. This babe is always eager to please me. I'll be sleeping and before I wake up, she has cooked and put it beside my bed *sigh* in fact everyone has been asking what I did to her but they don't understand that she's far from people I can call my friend!
Since I decided to cut her off this year, I was just waiting for the perfect moment because I like in fact love to give people the benefit of doubt and everything we share in common, I got mine except the storage unit for water. When she started her madness last week, I knew the time had come so I just calmly told her from that day, she should paddle her canoe and tell you what, she was shocked but I didn't care anyways.
I feel so happy knowing that I don't have to deal with someone forcing herself on me jare.
That's it my dearies oh, I know I'm not the only one who has experienced this. Share yours with us too!