Monday, 28 December 2015

DAY 27

LOVE ENCOURAGES
THE DARE
Eliminate the poison of unrealistic expectations in your home. Think of one area where your spouse has told you you are expecting too much and tell them you are sorry for being so hard on them about it. Promise them you'll seek to understand and assure them of your unconditional love.

The fact that most spouses are unrealistic with what their expectations are is one sore point in marriage.
Your wife has given you only girls so far and instead of you to praise her and encourage her for being a good mum, you're nagging her about her inability to give birth to a boy. Please, who produces the Y chromosome??
After working all day and trying to make sure food is ready on time, the encouragement she'll get from you is you insulting her that she is using tiredness to deprive you of sex. Where did this come from??
Woman, the fact that he can't afford to buy you a car now while your friend has several from her husband doesn't make your husband a bad person, instead encourage him, it will go a long way.
Take out time today and ask your spouse what area you've placed high expectations on them and tell them you are sorry. X

4 comments:

  1. Nice piece

    Yea..........truly love encourages

    But what matters most is understanding....Many of us lacks that and it's weighing us down




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