Sunday, 6 December 2015

Day 5

Love is not rude
THE DARE
Ask your spouse to tell you three things that cause him or her to be uncomfortable or irritated with you. You must do this without attacking them or justifying your behaviour.

Say for instance, you hate it when your husband doesn't put the toilet cover down, or you hate it when he leaves his socks in the sitting room, or you hate it when your wife leaves the dishes in the sink, why not write it down and think of ways to attack the issue and not the person?? 

10 comments:

  1. Interesting, the results that this exercise will produce. Greetings!

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    1. I hope marriages will be better off when we are done.

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  2. Those of us who don't have spouse to tell nko?

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    1. Lool, I said we the singles should bind them upon our hearts

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  3. oshey! i will start today! i dont like how my husband drops his shirt on the bed anytime he returns from work....

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    1. Gradually dear, but then you can help him take it away and when you do it for say 10 times and he notices, he'll change.

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