Saturday, 30 January 2016

Thursday, 28 January 2016

Wednesday, 27 January 2016

A few or few?

So I was checking my Facebook feed this morning and I came across this page, trust me to like it and save tons of pictures...
You asked for more grammar lessons and sharing is caring so here we go!
Have a great day peeps!! 

Saturday, 23 January 2016


Towards the end of last year, I seriously started nursing the thoughts of going natural. I didn't just wake up and decide to join the bandwagon, no, over the years I've had a love hate relationship with relaxers, I changed  brands in the bid to get the best but no matter what brand I used, I suffered from terrible headache from my relaxed date till 2 weeks post relaxer.
During my service year, I relaxed only once and though my hair is thick, it is quite soft so I didn't have issues managing my "due" hair. It was then I thought to chop off the hair but as usual, I had the nay sayers discouraging me.

The truth though is I'm not easy to discourage especially if I have my mind set on doing something, I just bid my time... So after halting between two opinions, I woke up this morning and did the BC myself, and no, I didn't feel any emotion chopping my hair off.
So here is me cheering to the new journey I'm about to embark on.. I'll try to share my regimen (I only have edge control now) and pictures too. I managed to take some shots with my front camera in a not so bright room.

Wednesday, 20 January 2016


Una doh oh, how have we been?? I've been fine but stressed so I figured I should do a blog post on how to manage stress because truly it's not easy to be an adult.
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Virtually every day, we come across things that put pressure on us. It could be family life ( wake up by 4am, prepare breakfast, clean the house and still get to work by 7am. Shout out to all the mothers in the house and shout out to me, they never told me being a grown up isn't fun), the office wahala, relationship, you name it, the concept of stress is familiar but I have good news for you! Stress can be managed. As usual I visited my good friend google and came up with the following tips. Enjoy

1. All office work ends in the office. Don’t take office work home.  The time meant for family shouldn’t be an extension of office hour (guilty).
2. Exercise: exercise is one of the most effective stress relievers. Studies have shown that those who exercise regularly are in good shape and don’t have as many problems with stress that is because exercise releases endorphins, chemicals that promote good moods and positive thinking. Exercise also provides a good physical outlet for releasing the energy that stress builds up inside you.
3. Massage: massages can also significantly reduce stress by releasing tension in your muscles. Not only can a massage help with stress, it can help boost your immune system which may have been weakened by stress.
4. You don’t even have to go to the big massage parlours to get a massage, you can massage your hands, feet, face, arms, legs and shoulders yourself or get bobo to do it for you
5. Meditation: it is a useful method to relieve stress regardless of your belief. You can use your imaginations as a place of escape, think of a place where you felt relaxed, try to imagine the place in the greatest detail possible, etc
6. Avoid your stressors: stay away from what is stressing you. Infact this is the first step to relieving your stress. End that toxic relationship today and save you some stress, ignore that annoying colleague at work and your life will be better.
7. Reframe your problems: if it is an issue bugging you that is stressing you, you can change your perspective of it. Instead of focusing on the negatives and the problems, you can concentrate on the positives. Do your best to see things in a positive light
8. Be better organized: most times, the chief cause of stress arises from feeling overwhelmed. Use a planner to keep track of your “to do list”. You can buy sticky notes and write things to do in an organized manner stick them on the fridge, on the dressing table, above the wall on your desk and follow the schedule strictly. This is me because I forget a lot so I learnt to make sticky notes my friend.
9. Learn to say no: you cannot do everything you are asked to do, so why keep pretending that you can? Be assertive and learn to say no politely but firmly and always when you know there isn’t a chance at all that you’ll get the thing done.
10. Learn how to delegate: learn to let go by giving more credence to the abilities of others. Giving up tasks may seem stressful in theory, but will free up more personal time. Find reliable people In your life that you can trust with tasks that you are too stressed or anxious to manage
11. Listen to some music: music has shown to have a very strong effect on mood and mental state. Cal yourself down by listening to your favourite soothing music
12. Try out a new activity: learning a new activity forces your mind off your stressors, making it easier for you to relax

Saturday, 16 January 2016


Holla lovelies.. Where is the owambe at today?? Ok before you dash out, let's quickly run through our grammar lessons.

  1. Taut, taught: Taut is a literary word that means tight while taught is the past tense of teach. 
  2. Tenant and tenet: A tenant is someone who rents a property while a tenet is a principle. 
  3. Their, there and they're: Their is the possessive of they, there refers to a place that is not here, they're is a contraction for they are. 
  4. Theirself, theirselves, themself, themselves: only themselves is correct as a reflexive or emphatic pronoun. 
  5. Throws, throes: Throes are several pains or difficult times, throws is the plural or present tense of throw. 
  6. Til, till: Til is a contraction of the preposition until, till is a verb meaning to cultivate. 
  7. To, too, two: To is a preposition meaning towards, I too means also, two is the number between one and three. 
  8. Torpid, turgid: Torpid means unresponsive, lacking alertness, turgid means very ornate and decorative. It can also mean swollen and bulging.

Tuesday, 12 January 2016

DAY 40



Write out a renewal of your vows and place them in your home. If appropriate, you can make arrangements to formally renew your wedding vows before a minister and with family present. Make it a living testament to the value of marriage in God's eyes and the high honour of being one with your mate.

And that's the end of the 40 day love dare aimed to strengthen marriages and repair every broken down bridge.
Of like to say a big thank you to all of you that participated by commenting on reading, liking on IG and so on, it's my sincere prayer that our marriages will be build on the foundation of love that never falters even when all things fail.

Monday, 11 January 2016

DAY 39



Spend some time in personal prayer, then write a letter of commitment and resolve to your spouse. Include why you are committing to this marriage until death, and that you have purposed to love them, no matter what.
Remember, love never fails. 

Sunday, 10 January 2016

DAY 38


Ask yourself what your mate would want if it was obtainable. Commit this to prayer and start mapping out a plan for meeting some, if not all of their desire to whatever level you possibly can. 

Saturday, 9 January 2016


So I've kinda ignored the Saturday usual due to circumstances beyond my control.. I mean this whole festive period was one I thought I'd rest but no, I don't even want to remember the stress I went through :-(
We're still on cognates, a topic I started last year and Insha Allah, we're going to wrap it up next month.

  1. Sale, Sail: A sale is a noun meaning the selling of something, a sail is the material used to catch wind on a boat. 
  2. Scene, Seen: Scene is a place or a view. Seen is the past tense of see. 
  3. Seam, Seem: A Seam is where two pieces of materials are joined while to seem is to appear or look as if. 
  4. Serf, Surf: A Serf is a servant, to surf is to ride the waves of water or to search on the Internet. 
  5. Sever, Severe: Sever means to cut through completely, severe means strict, hard, extreme. 
  6. Shear, Sheer: Shear means to cut off, and sheer means pure, unadulterated. It also means transparent. 
  7. Shore, Sure: A shore is a beach, it also means to brace or support. Sure means without doubt. 
  8. Some time, Sometime, Sometimes: Some time refers to a considerable period of time, sometime refers to an indistinct or unstated time in the future, sometimes is an adverb meaning 'continually, on and off'. 
  9. Stationery, Stationary: Stationary means still and unmoving, stationery refers to writing materials. 
  10. Straight, Strait: Straight is an adjective that means having no bends or curves, a strait is a narrow channel connecting two bodies of water. 
... And that's it guys. Enjoy the rest of your day. X

Thursday, 7 January 2016

DAY 37


Ask your spouse if you can begin praying together. 

Wednesday, 6 January 2016

DAY 36


Commit to reading the Bible everyday. If your spouse is willing, see if they will commit to daily Bible reading with you. Begin submitting each area of your life to it's guidance and start building on the Rock. 

Tuesday, 5 January 2016

DAY 35


Find a marriage mentor, someone who is a strong Christian and who will be honest and loving with you. If you feel counselling is needed, make the appointment. 

Monday, 4 January 2016

DAY 34


Find a recent example when your spouse demonstrated Christian character in a noticeable way and verbally commend them for this. 

Sunday, 3 January 2016

DAY 33



Recognise that your spouse is integral to your future success. Let them know today you desire them to be included in your upcoming decisions and that you need their perspective and counsel. If you've ignored their input in the past, admit your oversight and ask for forgiveness. 

Saturday, 2 January 2016

DAY 32


Initiate sex with your spouse today. Do it in a way that honours what your spouse needs from you.  Ask God to make this enjoyable for both of you.

There is this misconception that sex is strictly for procreation... I don't know where that originated from but for married couples, sex is a way of showing love because each time you have sex with your spouse, you deposit a part of you in them.
I once came across a video where a pastor said only missionary with the man on top is acceptable, that is very wrong because even the Bible said we should drink water from our own cistern,it also talked about eating pleasant fruits from your garden. Garden here is your spouse.
Men, be patient with her if she's a green horn, women, tell him where you liked to be touched, husband and wife, be willing to try new things and always aim to satisfy each other. There is nothing to be ashamed of in marriage, it is meant to be consummated!
One more area I'll touch is people that have time table for sex. Really?? Why must it be only at night or once a month?? This is why most people cheat but some people will open their mouth and be asking if sex is food. Oh well, if you must know, in marriage, sex is food!
One more thing, this is for the ladies especially, never use sex as a form of punishment by withholding it, never please. Instead look for ways of aiming to please instead of sending your husband outside. 

Friday, 1 January 2016

Day 31


If there is an issue about the biblical command to leave your parents, confess it to your spouse and resolve to make it right . Follow this with a commitment to your spouse and to God to make your marriage your priority over any other human relationship.

You see ehn, I don't understand it when a supposedly married man will still be living with his parents, really?? The Bible clearly states that a man shall leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife but how many couples are really cleaving today??
How often do you invite your relatives to come and mess up your spouse?? Mummy's boy, daddy's girl, when will you cut off that soul tie?? I'm not saying you shouldn't be close to your family but in marriage, your spouse should be top priority! 


Wow, so we made it finally?? I'm so sorry I'm just posting, I'm still in Nigeria oh, I've not changed time zone  yet but I've been very busy all day. Right now I'm dead tired but I said I'll muster all the energy I  have to post.
Welcome to 2016, the year of unlimited possibilities, forget about the unfinished projects or bad times you had in 2015, today is the first day of the rest of your life, I pray we shall climb from height to height.
So I was supposed to do this yesterday but I forgot, kindly mail me your digits (, I need to call every one of you to thank you for coming through in 2015.
Happy new year guys!