Saturday, 30 April 2016

Sunday, 24 April 2016

POST RELATIONSHIP DRAMA

I love love, I love the feeling I get when I'm in love with someone who loves me as much as I love him (I'm talking romantic love here) but recently, I've had the cause to question some people's claim to loving someone with respect to what happens when they call it quits.

Truly, no one goes into a relationship with the intent of leaving someday but the bitter truth I've learnt includes the following:
1. Because you love me and I love you doesn't mean we're meant to be.
2. There are no guarantees in life.

It's not easy loving someone deeply, not the one based on something oh, I mean pure love that flows from within. You know the whole your lover being on your mind all day, the way you smile to yourself when you remember awesome moments together, the calm you feel when you go over your chats, the way you feel giddy when your phone rings and their name is flashing on the screen, etc and someday, due to whatever, you two go your separate ways and suddenly, the person you claim to love becomes a stupid person, you start telling the world on social media especially  how you regret and start posting hurtful memes. Why do people do that?
Yes, I know sometimes one party might have offended but does that singular offence erase every other good thing about them? Isn't such tantrum throwing a pointer to the fact that you are immature and have no idea what love is about??